[Penelitian ini memberikan gambaran mengenai fenomena commuter marriage yangdialami oleh pasangan suami-istri yang bekerja dan pelaku migrasi tersebut berasaldari pihak istri. Penelitian menggunakan pendekatan kualitiatif dengan teknikpengumpulan data wawancara mendalam, observasi, dan data sekunder. Adapuntahapan yang dilalui oleh kedua pasangan ini, yaitu tahap pengambilan keputusan,tahap awal atau transisi hingga tahap menetap. Agar commuter marriage dapatberjalan dengan baik diperlukan adanya dukungan sosial, baik dari keluarga orientasi,teman kerja hingga Pembantu Rumah Tangga. Mengacu pada tipologi relasi suamiistrimenurut Scanzoni & Scanzoni, relasi pada pasangan commuter marriage palingmendekati dengan pola relasi senior-junior partner. Selain itu, penelitian inimenganggap bahwa emotional security atau keamanan emosional berpengaruhterhadap kelanggengan pola relasi yang ada., The purpose of this research is to describe about phenomenon of commuter marriagethat experienced by spouse who worked and wife become the person who doing themigration. This research using qualitative approach through collecting data; indepthinterview, observation, and secondary data. There are some stages that will be facedby the spouses like decision making process, early stage or transition, and the settlestage. In order to make commuter marriage goes well, social supports, as from family,colleagues, even housemaid are necessary. According to the typology of husbandwiferelation from Scanzoni & Scanzoni, the closest is senior-junior partner relationpattern. Moreover, this research assume that emotional security take effect to thecontinuity of the exsisting relation pattern.]