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Makalah ini memaparkan dan mengindentifikasi kata sapaan ? kata sapaan yang dipakai untuk menyebutkan orang tua dalam masyarakat Indonesia dan Belanda. yang ditemukan dalam 4 forum di internet (Femaledaily, Rahasiabunda, Gooievraag dan Zegmaaryes). Selain itu, dengan menggunakan metode deskriptif kualitaitf, makalah ini juga membahas faktor-faktor yang mempengaruhi keberagaman kata sapaan untuk orang tua di kedua negara tersebut. Keberagaman kata sapaan dilihat dari nuansa yang muncul pada kata sapaan tersebut. Kata sapaan-kata sapaan yang diidentifikasi dalam penelitian ini adalah bapak dan ibu, ayah dan bunda, papa dan mama, papi dan mami, abah dan emak, babe dan nyak, pipi dan mimi untuk pemakaian dalam masyarakat Indonesia dan untuk pemakaian di dalam masyarakat Belanda adalah vader dan moeder, papa dan mama, pappa dan mamma, pap dan mam, pappie dan mammie, pa dan ma, moeke, dan nama depan orang tuanya. Latar belakang sejarah dan budaya tak dapat dilepaskan dari pengaruh pemilihan dan penggunaan kata sapaan ? kata sapaan untuk menyebutkan orang tua. Nuansa makna yang mendominasi pemilihan kata sapaan tersebut adalah nuansa moderen dan netral

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ABSTRACT
This paper describes and identifies various terms of address for parents, which are commonly used in Indonesia and in the Netherlands, based on 4 internet forums ( Femaledaily, Rahasiabunda, Gooievraag dan Zegmaaryes). Furthermore, using the qualitative descriptive method this paper also discusses the factors that might be the cause of the diversity of the terms which address parents in the two countries. The diversity of the terms of address is viewed from the nuances. This paper gives an updated list of terms of address for parents in Indonesia such as bapak and ibu, ayah and bunda, papa and mama, papi and mami, abah and emak, babe and nyak, pipi and mimi and in the Netherlands terms such as vader and moeder, papa and mama, pappa and mamma, pap and mam, pappie and ma, moeke and their first names. The historical and cultural background plays an important role in influencing the choice of using the terms of address for parents. The two dominant nuances attached to the terms of address for parents are modern and neutral., This paper describes and identifies various terms of address for parents, which are commonly used in Indonesia and in the Netherlands, based on 4 internet forums ( Femaledaily, Rahasiabunda, Gooievraag dan Zegmaaryes). Furthermore, using the qualitative descriptive method this paper also discusses the factors that might be the cause of the diversity of the terms which address parents in the two countries. The diversity of the terms of address is viewed from the nuances. This paper gives an updated list of terms of address for parents in Indonesia such as bapak and ibu, ayah and bunda, papa and mama, papi and mami, abah and emak, babe and nyak, pipi and mimi and in the Netherlands terms such as vader and moeder, papa and mama, pappa and mamma, pap and mam, pappie and ma, moeke and their first names. The historical and cultural background plays an important role in influencing the choice of using the terms of address for parents. The two dominant nuances attached to the terms of address for parents are modern and neutral.]